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First of all I apologize for delaying my blog,
because I had broken both of my hands so could not type or my neighbors' cat
died ... so had the funeral and month-long depression or somebody robbed my
laptop and courier it today with a "post it" that stated 'thank you',
' for letting me borrow your laptop and your porn collection is awesome' . I
could think of much better reasons, but to tell you the truth I was engaged in
contradictions of my life, It just doesn’t leaves you alone, makes you dance on
its special tune ... I do not say i am a person who have seen it all but i have
been there, in last few months my life has really tested me, umpteen amount of
contradiction, face to face, I was completely befuddled among do,s and don’t,s
and right and wrong that it exhausted me till the core. Finally now my days are
going cloudless, bright and clear.
Just a day before today, I was reading this
blog , in which the author had written his daily contradiction that he can
never solve, his contradictions were very intriguing, I loved the part where he
mentions that he hates to subscribe to the belief that if we leave the
terrorists alone so they will leave us alone too, he also states that sometimes
we have to take the fight to the enemy, but later he also succumb to feelings
of him being not a warmonger , farther stating he is a veteran and firmly
believes in good national defense system. He later mentions his antipathy on
having a war, stating that justification of war is never hundred percent, but
also agrees that its sometime a necessary evil..Which brings me to my
contradiction of ideals, I do not say that thinking of Mahatma Gandhi was
wrong, but I strongly think that if it was for our lad Bhagat Singh we would
had got our independence sooner, saying that Bhagat Singh himself believed that
India would gain freedom under Gandhi,s leadership and yes we did indeed. But
in my views we would had got our independence sooner if we would have continued
with armed revolutionary struggle, and that is just my opinion. So is death
penalty necessary and equally important like sanctity of human life. Does
execution of murderers actually brings closure to victim’s family. Does the
judicial system always accuses right people for the crimes. These issues seem
to be black and white ... but they are indeed very complicated, Gandhi said
"an eye for an eye will make the whole world blind"... but does
it really, not in my dictionary. Although I am not sure of its desired outcome,
but I know, that it will be worth it, maybe...
Relationships is made of colossal
contradiction, we want our partner to understand us, but at the same point of
time we also think at times that it would have been much better if he or she
didn’t knew, Man despite their elephantine difference in all aspects with woman
can’t live without them and vice versa. They say a good argument is essential,
arguing helps bring out little problems before it gets complicated , and it is
somewhat true because your relationship has to be strong enough to hold all who
you are and not just creamy stuff, but isn’t it true that avoiding arguments
also means that you have learned that anger is unreasonable and unproductive,
isn’t arguing represents downfall of a relation than rather being a natural
part of it, no argument is pleasant, it’s like you expect lady gaga to wear
normal clothes, which is not possible. And if argument helps articulate
unsolved issues, then why most of the arguments will always cross a line and
what if in an argument you cross a line which you can never come back from.
Relationship is like strange love between bonds and enmity, they are like
conjoined twins, they dwell together attached in utero of life. After what i
have experience in my life it would be safe to say that the synonym of
relationship is contradiction and vice versa. they say without making wrong
choices how will you know whats right... everybody have there own contradiction
to face, i am not saying that my blog will help you solve your contradiction
but if it can put a light on it and make you see what your contradictions are
and you learn to accept it and live with it then my purpose is fulfilled.
Finally, Let me give you a contradicting
thought of the day, "changes and permanence both are required in
huge proportion, so that you can grow from within and outstrech
your core self ".
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